Women and The Fear of Settling Down

Men are not the only ones who are afraid to move , women are afraid to be put in place and for the same reasons as men. Contrary to popular opinion , women are not necessarily afraid to move because of some wounds of the past , which was paid on them by some doggy - man . And it is the same for men. There are many women who do not want to give up his bachelor life and settle down with a man. Women cling to her bachelorette party - bell as hard as men cling to their only cover. Of course, there are men and women who sign up with happiness in marriage and domestic life with pleasure. Well, he does not speak of those. So happy for them . There are women who like to spend their money as they wish, without having to think about when two people can think about number one. These women do not have to go out and party , drink , go wild and connect with sexy hot guy at the bar . Although it can be fun too. ( So I hear ) . :))

There are women who love their freedom and are in no rush to run down the aisle of a burst of a white dress with a bouquet in her hands in anger. This seems so tale princess . Just the idea of ​​settling some women have outbreaks of hives, get an asthma attack and then go off. This does not mean that there are no great men out there who would make great husbands. Some women are simply not interested in settling down with one person for the rest of their natural born life.

However, even if some of this fear can come around more parents who hate each other, some of which could be the fear of not wanting to abandon celibacy. Maybe this woman has lived his life on his own terms and become accustomed to her life, she does not really see the need to give up her single life as she has been very successful and happy life of its own . Now there is another reason. If this woman is a strong woman , there are men who are intimidated by strong women. They may feel intimidated by this woman and find a woman who is less intimidating . NEXT ! That's what I say that if a man is intimidated by me and can not intervene to me as a mature adult male. Why a man who can not face me , but collapses or works every time ? Why a man who wants his ego stroked just so you can feel like a man? I will not play the damsel in distress for me to get nicer and subjected to a man.

There are many women who took home for themselves so they do not have time for the little woman to attract a man or to make a man feel good. A strong woman needs a strong man who can stand by your side as your counterpart . There is no question of a man who is physically strong , in spite of a man who is muscular enough to pick up and carry is very sexy and sexist woman. If you like that kind of guy like me. Anyway , I am. A woman does not need a man who knows himself and has to do with games or woman needs a man that folds in case of problems . It is for this reason that some women are afraid to install . Of course, this is why it is a get to know each other period , and if a man is not the woman just get on with your life .

There are men who can not handle half of what some women have lived so they are not able to measure a woman. There are also men who want women to be for them. So when women see the examples, just push the fear of there. She did not want to become a mother , wife, lover, and a doctor. A strong woman needs a strong man who can hold their own and can be next to her as a companion, a confidant and a rock of support. This woman has no problem treating this man like a king because he has already proven he will try to treat it like the queen .

A strong woman , a queen, has no problem spreading their king , a man appears with their actions , not their words , which may be next to her and be her other half full. A strong woman does not need a man to protect her. It can protect themselves if it is not looking for his Sir Galahad of the Knights of the Round Table. This woman needs a man who is in your corner and on your computer as it will be for him . This is why it can be difficult for women to want to move . From what she saw around it can be hard to believe that such a man exists, but they do. There are many relationships that work because both people have resisted what they wanted and worked to become complete in themselves so they can be attracted to your other half who is also complete in itself . Then come together in a healthy relationship and spiritual growth.

If , as a woman does not want to settle just because you want to be alone , then that's fine . Gone are the days when a single woman is considered an outcast by the village people because he is not married and has no children, and we are far from the days when a woman was considered vultures go after married men in the town. Single women pressed for themselves and live the fabulous life. However, if you are afraid to move , and he does not believe there are grown men out there, then you are doing a disservice . If you really want to settle down, build a wedding and get married, start working on yourself more and more in the kind of woman you marry . If it does not marry why can not expect a man who wants to marry you ?

If you do not work on yourself , heal past wounds and your growth you, then you'll never be ready for a mature and healthy marriage. Because marriage is more than just getting married. Two people can marry , however, two adults and mature people who work on their development as well as having a marriage are required. A wedding is where you build a deeper intimacy with others . It is where you have to develop yourself . You do before you have a wedding . When you have a marriage, then comes marriage . Sure, they are not all like that , and some have managed to build a marriage work, love and desire to stay together.

Women , when you start itself increasingly to the woman you want to be, they are more ready for another person in your life . You made a conscious decision to start working on yourself and increasingly decision. Take the time to take stock of your life and see where you can start developing you more . You can never overcome the fear of moving , however, if you really want to get married, but I remain open day a man who is as strong as your enter her life, that fear will gradually disappear and a beautiful friendship , love and marriage begins to materialize between two people who sincerely and truly love .