We have the best time together, but do not call me after our dates?
Blogger "TT" frustrated raised this issue in a conversation : "I was dating this guy for 10 weeks and everything is fine , nice and friendly and we have a good time together when we go to the movies , dinner and bowling . Boys concert men really had a great time , but did not call the next day and the day after , I wanted to call , but I knew he would call me if I do not like in fact it was 3 days before I heard from him. called as if nothing had happened and never mentioned that he had been MIA for 3 whole days.
so I was confused and a little angry I know that you probably had no right to be angry , I tried to act normal and probably took it off , but I really want to know what c ' is, and how can I cope? ' M not like I built it , I must know my man on a regular basis , I like this guy but I am totally confused . Why do guys do this ? "
Well first error , 10 weeks in the connection and "TT" shows its subliminal programming of the mind , as he spoke of him as she feels insecure and needs to be reassured by his new " my man . " romantic partner , nothing wrong there, but a handful of dates to a "date" your man ? and what about the language - MIA is not that sound more like AWOL ? Sons 'sticky' for you?
This is the stage of the relationship where men become very careful about their language and their behavior is very important that you listen carefully and take mental notes : extreme attention to your actions.
There are 3 types of men
HIT MAN :
He wants to hit as soon as possible if it pulls out all the stops . He will say and do whatever he has to say or do. It goes well and each of its terms , but one that prevents the achievement of its objective . Its sole purpose is to fulfill its agenda in any way possible. It is easy to see through, his story is generally all manufactured and adapted to match their opinion of you . if necessary, it will be very careful and patient , any information that you can take his words and actions become part of its strategy to achieve its short-term goal . Be patient with all men and especially with yourself, your true character eventually play for you to see .
USER:
It seeks to engage in a short-term stopgap relationship with you, something that you can get from when he is tired or that their language is usually much more diplomatic and slippery. It might seem to be the most honest of the three because it is ready to reveal it out with other people and wants to be " open and honest " and he plans to use when you turn becomes tired or distracted by something new, more lucrative or interesting. Attention sometimes this appears to have long-term intentions , but did not intend to stay longer than necessary for you to start making any kind of commitment. His language is generally full of " safeguards " clauses full of ways to get out of the relationship or the backdoor entrance , and if you allow him to get beyond the verbiage that you use all its might safeguard clauses for output . "I do not want to get into anything serious right now ", "I 'm just out of a bad relationship and want to take my time ", " Keep dating other people until we are sure of where we want to take this relationship "" I work a lot and sometimes my job takes me out of town .. it was a big problem in my last relationship we had problems of space I hope we do not have this problem because I really like . "
When a man is really interested in a woman in a long-term perspective that is often irregular and overcome anxiety about his fate when he can not be with her, it is not possible that he encouraged out with another man while he is at home. On the other hand, if you just want to have a little play time without ending up with the tab or the reputation of being human , then surely capable of supporting its being the responsibility of another man .
Be careful, seems Mr. Fun plays "TT" wide, ie it is sure she does not do exactly what they are doing now , you try to play with him too. By not call too often frustrated by the beginning of the relationship and is trained to keep their distance and not be too dependent on their presence. My guess is that it gives a deliberate sample of what is to come, smiling and playing Mr. Fun category. It can be enjoyed now , but intends to play a limited role in their plans. She is preparing to play its role.
MAN :
Not much is there to say about the man who is " affected " by a woman he thinks she might be " the One " is a bag of nerves standing . It can wrap around your thumb or finger or wear it like a glove . Their language is similar to the " villain night " , but the difference is that you are ready to demonstrate their "Metal" and to allow him through the steps necessary to qualify and validate their words and their true intentions. It is open to review and full disclosure. He is eager to know the important important people in his life : his parents, his children, his faithful friends. It is gold, but gold is pure purge
with fire.
Do not be afraid to ask the tough questions and request validation . Resist impulses and bad habits that do not work in his past relationships , if not , repeat the same steps in your life to learn the lessons that their experiences are intended to teach.
Resist being sticky.
Stay in your comfort zone, ask tough questions necessary in the early stages of dating.
Never give an easy target.
Do not play hard to get, be difficult to obtain.
Declaration of an alternative program you need a man , something that shows you are an existing route to improve the quality of your life.
Reference topics that are sold as "long term" girl , education , home, family , travel, spirituality.
I know what you want in your life.
Lure him to be worthy .
Blogger "TT" frustrated raised this issue in a conversation : "I was dating this guy for 10 weeks and everything is fine , nice and friendly and we have a good time together when we go to the movies , dinner and bowling . Boys concert men really had a great time , but did not call the next day and the day after , I wanted to call , but I knew he would call me if I do not like in fact it was 3 days before I heard from him. called as if nothing had happened and never mentioned that he had been MIA for 3 whole days.
so I was confused and a little angry I know that you probably had no right to be angry , I tried to act normal and probably took it off , but I really want to know what c ' is, and how can I cope? ' M not like I built it , I must know my man on a regular basis , I like this guy but I am totally confused . Why do guys do this ? "
Well first error , 10 weeks in the connection and "TT" shows its subliminal programming of the mind , as he spoke of him as she feels insecure and needs to be reassured by his new " my man . " romantic partner , nothing wrong there, but a handful of dates to a "date" your man ? and what about the language - MIA is not that sound more like AWOL ? Sons 'sticky' for you?
This is the stage of the relationship where men become very careful about their language and their behavior is very important that you listen carefully and take mental notes : extreme attention to your actions.
There are 3 types of men
HIT MAN :
He wants to hit as soon as possible if it pulls out all the stops . He will say and do whatever he has to say or do. It goes well and each of its terms , but one that prevents the achievement of its objective . Its sole purpose is to fulfill its agenda in any way possible. It is easy to see through, his story is generally all manufactured and adapted to match their opinion of you . if necessary, it will be very careful and patient , any information that you can take his words and actions become part of its strategy to achieve its short-term goal . Be patient with all men and especially with yourself, your true character eventually play for you to see .
USER:
It seeks to engage in a short-term stopgap relationship with you, something that you can get from when he is tired or that their language is usually much more diplomatic and slippery. It might seem to be the most honest of the three because it is ready to reveal it out with other people and wants to be " open and honest " and he plans to use when you turn becomes tired or distracted by something new, more lucrative or interesting. Attention sometimes this appears to have long-term intentions , but did not intend to stay longer than necessary for you to start making any kind of commitment. His language is generally full of " safeguards " clauses full of ways to get out of the relationship or the backdoor entrance , and if you allow him to get beyond the verbiage that you use all its might safeguard clauses for output . "I do not want to get into anything serious right now ", "I 'm just out of a bad relationship and want to take my time ", " Keep dating other people until we are sure of where we want to take this relationship "" I work a lot and sometimes my job takes me out of town .. it was a big problem in my last relationship we had problems of space I hope we do not have this problem because I really like . "
When a man is really interested in a woman in a long-term perspective that is often irregular and overcome anxiety about his fate when he can not be with her, it is not possible that he encouraged out with another man while he is at home. On the other hand, if you just want to have a little play time without ending up with the tab or the reputation of being human , then surely capable of supporting its being the responsibility of another man .
Be careful, seems Mr. Fun plays "TT" wide, ie it is sure she does not do exactly what they are doing now , you try to play with him too. By not call too often frustrated by the beginning of the relationship and is trained to keep their distance and not be too dependent on their presence. My guess is that it gives a deliberate sample of what is to come, smiling and playing Mr. Fun category. It can be enjoyed now , but intends to play a limited role in their plans. She is preparing to play its role.
MAN :
Not much is there to say about the man who is " affected " by a woman he thinks she might be " the One " is a bag of nerves standing . It can wrap around your thumb or finger or wear it like a glove . Their language is similar to the " villain night " , but the difference is that you are ready to demonstrate their "Metal" and to allow him through the steps necessary to qualify and validate their words and their true intentions. It is open to review and full disclosure. He is eager to know the important important people in his life : his parents, his children, his faithful friends. It is gold, but gold is pure purge
with fire.
Do not be afraid to ask the tough questions and request validation . Resist impulses and bad habits that do not work in his past relationships , if not , repeat the same steps in your life to learn the lessons that their experiences are intended to teach.
Resist being sticky.
Stay in your comfort zone, ask tough questions necessary in the early stages of dating.
Never give an easy target.
Do not play hard to get, be difficult to obtain.
Declaration of an alternative program you need a man , something that shows you are an existing route to improve the quality of your life.
Reference topics that are sold as "long term" girl , education , home, family , travel, spirituality.
I know what you want in your life.
Lure him to be worthy .
