Everything we set New
Year's resolutions - lose weight, save money , be organized - But have you
established agreements with?
Think about it, you 've been dating the same type of personality and again with the same result? You find yourself alone. Maybe it's time to think about what kind of person you should attend. You can start with a list of advantages and disadvantages. What are the characteristics or personality traits are not negotiable ? Humor, sarcasm, easygoing, spontaneous , energetic ... What are the traits that you think I should avoid? Needy , vanity, a spendthrift , a drunkard ...
Well, once you have your list , it is time to think, to really make sure you've been honest with yourself. Do not give up, it may take several attempts to get your realistic list . Remember, you are finally being honest with yourself.
I know the villain is exciting - dangerous, unpredictable and exciting - but also cheat and treats you like shit . I know, I know , good is boring , predictable and systematic . There is a happy medium, just watch .
If you are away from your usual kind find a guy that illuminates not only the fire, but treat you right, do not be surprised if it takes a few tries. We tend to fall into old habits, because his ease. Will have to experiment .
Be patient with yourself and keep your list handy . Protect your heart, it is not as demanding as the head. It is easy to fall in love if you think about it, but remember , you are planning for a successful future . Good stop along the way , but continue to aim for the stars . It is there.
