Have you been dating your man for a while and can't figure out why he hasn't popped the big question? Well below I am going to share with 5 reasons your man hasn't asked you to marry him yet. And by the way ladies, these reasons come straight from the horse's mouth.
Reason #1 - You Already Live Together
Are you and your man already living together? Are you doing all the things a wife would do without even being his wife? Now ask yourself, why would he marry you when you are already doing everything a wife
Reason #2 - He Already Told You He Doesn't Want To Get Married
Listen ladies. Men are generally very honest about what they do and don't want. If your man has already said he has no desire to get married, then that is why he hasn't married you. Most women fall into the trap of believing they can change a man and get him to marry her later on down the road. The chances of this happening are slim to none.
If a man tells you he never wants to get married, believe him and move on. There is no need staying in a 5 year relationship that you know will never lead to what you really want which is marriage.
Reason #3 - He Sees You as a Liability
What do you have to offer in a relationship? Do you have a lot of debt? Do you have several children? Do you have a lot of unresolved issues? All of these things make you a liability and not an asset. A man wants an asset; as does every woman. So work on yourself first. Get your house in order so you can actually have something to offer someone first.
Reason #4 - He Sees You as the Good Time Girl
Does your man only call you when he wants to go out and have a good time? Does he only call you when he is going on a fun business trip or when he wants to go hang out with the boys? If so he sees you as his good time girl. You can go out and have a good time together but he will never take you around his family and closest friends.
Reason #5 - He's Afraid To Get Married
He loves you and doesn't mind telling the world you are his girl. He even has the desire to spend the rest of his life with you. He just doesn't want to do it in the form of marriage. Everyone has a different view of marriage. And for some of us, commitment phobia is a serious and very real issue.
For example, I had a cousin who lost her dad at a young age; as a result she said she never wanted to get married because of the pain she saw her mother go through. If your man lost someone early in his life or his parents were divorced when he was young, he might have a real fear of getting married because of what he saw. In many cases this can be cured with a little counseling.
Reason #1 - You Already Live Together
Are you and your man already living together? Are you doing all the things a wife would do without even being his wife? Now ask yourself, why would he marry you when you are already doing everything a wife
Reason #2 - He Already Told You He Doesn't Want To Get Married
Listen ladies. Men are generally very honest about what they do and don't want. If your man has already said he has no desire to get married, then that is why he hasn't married you. Most women fall into the trap of believing they can change a man and get him to marry her later on down the road. The chances of this happening are slim to none.
If a man tells you he never wants to get married, believe him and move on. There is no need staying in a 5 year relationship that you know will never lead to what you really want which is marriage.
Reason #3 - He Sees You as a Liability
What do you have to offer in a relationship? Do you have a lot of debt? Do you have several children? Do you have a lot of unresolved issues? All of these things make you a liability and not an asset. A man wants an asset; as does every woman. So work on yourself first. Get your house in order so you can actually have something to offer someone first.
Reason #4 - He Sees You as the Good Time Girl
Does your man only call you when he wants to go out and have a good time? Does he only call you when he is going on a fun business trip or when he wants to go hang out with the boys? If so he sees you as his good time girl. You can go out and have a good time together but he will never take you around his family and closest friends.
Reason #5 - He's Afraid To Get Married
He loves you and doesn't mind telling the world you are his girl. He even has the desire to spend the rest of his life with you. He just doesn't want to do it in the form of marriage. Everyone has a different view of marriage. And for some of us, commitment phobia is a serious and very real issue.
For example, I had a cousin who lost her dad at a young age; as a result she said she never wanted to get married because of the pain she saw her mother go through. If your man lost someone early in his life or his parents were divorced when he was young, he might have a real fear of getting married because of what he saw. In many cases this can be cured with a little counseling.
