How to Include Children in Your Wedding Ceremony

Children often feel a little left when his father plans a wedding. There are many details to see the parents and is very busy running around taking care of everything. A great way to tell them that we are still very important for you is to include . As you will blend their two families, you should do from the start. I'll show you how and where to add your children to your wedding ceremony . I'll show you an example of the ceremony with the inclusion of four children. If you have more or fewer children, to add or subtract as needed. Just replace the child the name of his own son .

The bride wedding ceremony and groom


We are gathered here today to celebrate one of the great moments of life , to know the value and beauty of love, and to add our best wishes to the words that the bride and the groom in marriage. Today we celebrate not only the marriage, but also to celebrate the formation and affirmation of a family and the child 1 child 2 , 3 and 4 children.


The bride and groom today promise their love for each other and are committed to their love to their children, and engaging with them and each other to create a family.


Please face each other and join hands :


Did you groom takes bride to be your wedded wife , to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse , for richer , poverty, in sickness and in health, until that death part ? ( This is where the groom says I do and then turns married . )


Leader says married to repeat after me:


I will form , Take you , bride, to be my wife married. As the two come together that day , we become part of each other. His feelings become my feelings. Their sentences become my sorrows . Their joys become my joys . Your concerns become my care. And their children to my children. I promise to be a husband and parents, and true love and I promise to deal with family life . I promise each of you this day .


Officiant says : girlfriend, could you please repeat after me : Repeat after Officiant Bride same as above .


Next would be the exchange of rings . I'll let you off as it is about adding children to the ceremony. Then I have a section in which the vote will be repeated to their children. You tell them both simultaneously .


The bride and groom , who have declared their love for each other . In its decision to spend the rest of your lives together , you accept the responsibilities of parenting other children other important relationships. You have established a home where every child to find love , security and acceptance . As part of their love for each other , now that you ask your promises to them.At this point , the celebrant would call the children to follow. Parents have to bear children because they are repeated after the officiant .


Child 1 , Child 2 , 3 and 4 children


We are committed to love and support you. To be there for you. To listen to and respect . To help you learn right from wrong . For always being there when you need us. And to give you love and make you part of our new family.


Officiant says: The groom and the bride, who exchanged vows and promises . He opened their heart to another, declared his love and friendship , and joined up with the exchange of rings . You have joined their families as one. Therefore, I am pleased that you husband and wife say . You may kiss the bride. Ladies and gentlemen, I present the first Mr. and Mrs. bride and groom and his family.


The wording of which can be changed to anything you want to tell . This is just an example, you can work with and customize to make it your own . You can give your own voice. If you notice, I have no speaking children. You can put the child up and make them uncomfortable . After all, there will be plenty of people watching and you really want to make a positive experience for them .


You can also do other things that make them feel included , such as: giving each child a rose. Or you could give each child a gift, like a watch or necklace. You can also include in the planning . You may ask, " What do you think of this color Or : " Do you like these flowers, or those? " In this way, you are already doing your, mixed single family . It is the goal here . Congratulations to a great family. happy with your new family!