Avoiding Holiday Financial Strain on Your Marriage

Christmas is fast approaching . Amid all the fun it has to do with the establishment of the lights, trim trees , and baking Christmas cookies , one thing is certain - Christmas can be a very stressful time financially for some families .

In addition to buying gifts for children , there is also the hassle of finding money in the budget for gifts for parents and Christmas. At the end of the month , many couples find themselves in debt. Not to mention, many couples do not even have to buy gifts for others , so that others in your family can be supported.


Communication is the key


Many working couples in their struggle with finding the money during the holidays, and not talk about how much to spend. If you share a checking account, not unlikely that lets you check your account , only to find that most of the money has already been spent for the week or month. This can cause stress at any time of year, but the Christmas period can be a real problem.


Going into the Christmas season , and start planning your holiday shopping trips , sit and talk to each other about how much money you will spend on gifts. Discuss your other bills , and to develop a strategy for how you will cover your expenses and still buy gifts for everyone on your list . The important thing is to get on the same page .


Use cash instead of credit


During this time of year , the credit cards in your wallet may look pretty tempting. However, remember how these bills are causing you stress after the holiday season is over. Whenever possible , you start saving early in the year for your holiday shopping , it will be easier to resist the temptation to use credit cards as much as possible . You might even consider saving money on a " Christmas Fund " to pay separately for gifts there is never confusion about the amount of money you have to spend on .


Plan ahead for next year - Together


If you communicate with others this year , you will find that your stress level will decrease significantly . However, in the future, is a good idea to make a plan for next Christmas now . When you know you have financial problems about Christmas every year, why not plan ahead to make things easier ? Many banks offer savings clubs that Christmas money deposit their paychecks each week automatically .  


Twenty dollars a week , probably not even be missed , and when Christmas comes , you'll have a good start in the money you need to buy gifts.

Above all , we must not forget that Christmas is supposed to be a time of joy this year. By taking the time to communicate with others, and come with an attack on all of your shopping plan , you can experience more joy as a couple. This alone can make this Christmas the best I've had.